It can be so simple to talk to every girl you want to talk to. But it can also be hard – you decide. I am going to tell you right away the biggest secret I have learned – it’s about being comfortable talking with ANYONE, not just beautiful women.

It is one thing to know what to say. I know, you want to come up with a really unique and original observation about her that will instantly get her curious. Those things can and do work pretty good, but the problem is that it’s rare that you actually think of things like that.

For me, the bigger problem is – HOW do I actually get the confidence to say anything at all? I mean, I can look at her and find something about her clothes or accessories to comment on, but if I’m just going to pass along her awkwardly and not open my mouth, what use is it?

If you want to have great conversations with beautiful women, here’s what you need to do – start talking to strangers everywhere. This is one exercise that I’ve ignored for far too long. Once I actually started doing this, things started working for me.

I call it the stranger-a-day experiment. Make it your goal for the next 7, 14, 21, 28 or whatever days to say “hi” every day to one person you don’t know. It can be as simple as passing an attractive girl in a bus stop and turning your head to say “hi” and smile. Even if she looks at you weird, you have accomplished your goal.

Try it out. Once you get comfortable having conversations in low-pressure situations, you will be well-prepared for the most beautiful women. The best way you get over your fears is to do it gradually.

Yes, it can happen. In fact, it does happen all the time. There’s this girl you know that you really like and would like to have something going on between you and her. You dream about her, you have fantasies of the two of you together, you’d do anything to get her. It can be a painful process, especially if you know that your chances are slim and she’s not giving you any attention.

Well, I am here to give you a reality check. NOTHING will happen if you go on acting the way you are acting. You are probably: a) putting her on a pedestal, making up a picture of her that probably is far from the truth b) giving away all your value and power – making her the rare and precious snowflake that has an abundance of men around her, and making yourself out to be common and ordinary.

Hollywood is wrong. Women do not like to be professed eternal love and caring. I mean, how many times in real life have you heard something like that even coming close to getting a girl interested? In my experience, it is a really, really rare occasion. And there’s probably something wrong.

You must come to grips with the fact that women are not looking for affection. It might not seem that way if you look at all the couples around you. Yes, affection is the foundation upon which a long-term relationship stands. But long-term relationships most commonly do not start off as such. They start with a spark, something ignites certain feelings in a girl which makes her want to spend more time with a guy.

And if the guy is just another plain dude who secretly is in love with her and would do ANYTHING to get her,then guess what – THAT is not going to spark the attraction.

By our nature we are still half animals, half humans. Instead of one brain, we have two – the rational and emotional (animal) brains. Instead of our brains controlling our bodies, a lot of times our bodies control our brains instead. And that’s what happens with girls – there’s still this animal side inside of her and she is attracted by almost the same things that she was attracted to 10,000 years ago. We humans haven’t changed much since that time.

Women respond very strongly to DOMINANT, POWERFUL men. They also respond to men that already have women in their life. This is key.

Though learning how to be the kind of man that is able to attract the kinds of women he likes is a long and demanding journey, there are some things you can do today to be more successful. I will show you what these things are in this article.

1. Exuding the energy that you are already successful.

It’s a paradox, but the better you are already, the better you are able to become. The beginning is always the hardest part. Women like men that already have women in their lives. Once you get things going, it becomes a self-reinforcing cycle and your success will skyrocket. However, in the beginning, you need to help things along.

And you can do that by changing your energy from the beginning. Start imagining that you have tens of women in your life that want to date you. I know that it sounds silly, but what is more important to you – being successful with women, or evading anything that seems silly? Look, it might be silly to you now, but it sure works.

When you’re walking on the street, imagine that every girl you see is already attracted to you. KNOW IT. Do it consciously. This is one of the biggest factors separating the winners from the losers.

2. A positive outlook on life. Yeah, this is such a cliche I shouldn’t even put it in here. But the thing is – knowing something is one thing. Actually LIVING IT is another. You need to live these words – I like myself. Become a living embodiment of these words. Practice smiling. Practice encouraging yourself. Be your own coach, go in front of the mirror and smile. That’s what I did, and I’ve seen tremendous results and I’m enjoying my life a lot more now.

3. Being unpredictable. Have you ever had a girl take a huge interest in you, flirting with you, making jokes and you’ve enjoyed being in the “flow” so much? And then when you saw her again the next time, she was cold, paid other people more attention than you, didn’t laugh at your jokes, in fact, didn’t even give you much of an opportunity to make jokes? How did it make you feel? I bet you felt a bit pissed off, confused and frustrated. I’ve had that happen quite a lot.

But you know what – it’s just something that women do. They’ve learned that lesson over time – acting interested one day and really distant the other really screws with our heads and confuses us – BUT, it also makes us more attracted to them. Do you know what I’m talking about?

Well, my suggestion is to take some of that mindset and adopt it in your interactions with women. Women do it often and now is the time to strike back with their own weapons. Do not always treat her the same way – alternate how open and warm you are with her the next time you see her. Try it out once and see what happens.

You have to be a man and keep moving forward at all times.

Remember that I told you that women are turned on by confident, masculine guys? Well, it is really attractive when you do something that you are afraid. And that something is kissing her. You have to be the one in control at all times.

The convention in society is that women are supposed to hold themselves back from being aggressive and have to let men do all the work. This ties in with what I told you about women not wanting to be seen as sluts. I might be exaggerating a bit, but many women associate going for the kiss first with the thought of being seen as a slut. So they are not that willing to do it.

That’s why it’s all up to you to take control. Women want sex as much as you do and they will be disappointed if you don’t take the steps. It’s very, very important to have control at all times.

What You Didn’t Know About How to Get a Girl In Bed, Key #5: This Is A Skill That Can Be Learned

You might not have thought about it this way, but it does not have to be a matter of your personality. Personality is something that most people see as fixed, while a skill is something that is definitely up to you. Knowing how to get physical with a woman is a skill, it’s not a question of your personality.

The fact is that the more you practice at this, the better you get. And you can read up on the specific skills, mindsets, techniques and so on.

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Now this is where it gets complicated.. I’m supposed to be sexual from the beginning, but I cannot express my sexual interest? What the hell is going on? Yes, it’s true.

Overt interest in the beginning kills attraction. Notice I said „overt“ interest. If she is pretty sure that you want her (such as from the fact that you.. I don’t know.. TOLD HER?), then she is going to be turned off. Women love a challenge. They love a tease, they love mystery. If you hand it all out on a silver platter, then the chase is over.

The way that you communicate your sexual interest has to be implicit.. you only ever HINT at what you’d like to do with her, and NEVER in a way that she can read you and see what you want. Keep her guessing. At one point touch her on her arm, and another tease her for coming on to you.

By the way, this is something that works like magic.. pay attention here! This is key – act like a beautiful, hot woman that is used to men picking up on her. Get in the same mindset. I’ve found that if you take the games that women play on you and turn them right around, women get crazily attracted to you. Try it.

For example, misinterpret everything she says as sexual. If she says it’s time to go to bed, tell her „I’m not coming to bed with you. You haven’t impressed me enough so far, you have to work a bit harder for that“.

Learn from women. Do what they do to push away all those weak men that want to get in her pants. Do the same thing to women and they will not know what to do! You will differentiate from every other guy out there instantly.

What You Didn’t Know About How to Get a Girl In Bed, Key #3: You Need To Be Comfortable Being a Physical Person

You cannot just expect to meet up with a girl and suddenly turn into this suave, smooth-talking Don Juan that is confident in himself and knows how to handle a beautiful woman. And by ’handle’ I mean know what to dowith a girl specifically to get her interested and turned on.

You do this through physical contact – touch. And you don’t suddenly turn it on when you meet a beautiful woman. No. You have to get used to being the guy that is very physical.

I think one of the biggest things missing in today’s society is physical touch. In a world where MSN chat and e-mail replaces face-to-face contact, we have forgotten how strong of a sense of connection touch can bring. Try it out. Start touching your female friends on the upper arm when you talk to them.

Hug people when you greet them. This is a big one. I tended towards the introverted side when I grew up, so I used to be reserved. But then I moved to a larger city and I started making friends with people from countries that have a more physical culture, like Brazil, Venezuela, and so on. And the norm in these circles is to hug everyone you meet, even guys! I was a bit weirded out at first, but then I started to see the point.

It helped me out immensely in my dating life. Thanks to hanging around these people, I was so comfortable touching people that when I met a beautiful girl, I would have no hangups about hugging her out of the blue, being a bit „too“ suggestive with my touch, giving mysterious looks, holding my hand on the small of her back, and so on, and so on. It was almost magical.

So do the same. Start hugging people more. Touch girls on the upper arm. Make friends with people from countries which have a warmer culture. It can only help you.

Because when you then are alone with that beautiful girl, you will automatically know what to do without having any second thoughts.

This is the first part of the article series. The second part will be published in the coming days – stay tuned.

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„Nice shoes, wanna fuck?“ Or even being plain and simple with it: „I want to have sex with you.“ This is a „pick up line“ that is being thrown around a lot. It’s supposed to work sometimes.

And get a drink thrown in your face most of the time.

The thing is, as I said, women do want to have sex as much as men do. But they will only be thinking about it once they are really turned on. Come on, you have heard the analogy – men are like an on/off button while women are like a volume control – they have to be turned up slowly but surely. This is true in my experience.

Men can think of sex in a few seconds of seeing a sexy woman. For women, it takes a lot more work to get their thoughts moving in that direction. They need to be seduced, there has to be a lot of TENSION and anticipation. You can only hint at where you are going with your interaction.

It’s the mystery, the unpredictability that makes women aroused. Directly mentioning sex when you don’t even know the girl can only work in the most extreme cases – when she’s really drunk, really horny and doesn’t have much respect for her. Those women are not common, and you would NOT want to have sex with them.

Misconception #5 – You Should Lie, Tell Her What She Wants To Hear and Otherwise Be Manipulative

Okay, this is simply stupid. Would you lie to get a good job? Would you lie to earn more money? No? Then why would you lie to get a girl in bed?

That is not an intelligent thing to do. If you are reading this, I am assuming you have at least a basic level of self-respect and a sense of ethics that you would not consider being manipulative with women.

Don’t lie. Don’t „tell her what she wants to hear“. Don’t manipulate.

The best way to get a girl interested in you is to be direct and honest, in fact. It can be a massive turn-on for women when you admit that you’ve had to LEARN how to attract women, for example. Sounds counterintuitive, but it actually communicates a lot about you – you’re not AFRAID of this fact, you’re not hiding anything, but most importantly – you don’t care much about what other people think of you.

That is damn attractive to women. Don’t believe me? Come on, go ask an attractive girl that you know how it makes her feel when a man is being really direct and honest with her. I mean truly direct. You might change your mind.

What You Didn’t Know About How to Get a Girl In Bed, Key #1: You Need To Set The Tone From The Beginning

It’s all about the relationship between you two. Before you try to make a move on her, you need to have a certain amount of sexual tension going on. If you suddenly move in and kiss her out of the blue, it will seem strange to her.

As I told you, women divide men into categories, and you need to be in the right one. It’s very hard to get out from the label she has given you.

If you two are currently just friends, be very careful. There is a small chance she is in fact considering something more with you, but I think in 90% of the cases when a guy is thinking of hitting on his female friend, things get bad. You need to appraise her level of sexual interest correctly in order not to ruin it. But to do that, you need to already have experience in communicating with women on that level.

I think that if there’s a friend you’d like to get physical with, it’s best not to bother at first. Go and find three other girls, and then three more, and then three more.. until you make a move on your friend. For all you know, she might reject you bad and it will hurt your friendship.

The thing is, you have to be a MAN straight from the beginning. Be sexual. Touch her (more on this soon). Flirt and tease her. Take control.

I will describe how to do these things in this article. But if you haven’t done this stuff with this girl, then she probably has categorized you as a friend and it’s over.

Start the relationship (and by this I don’t mean „relationship“.. I just mean the way you communicate with her) off on the right foot – be a sexual man and don’t hide it.

This is the first part of the article series. The second part will be published in the coming days – stay tuned.

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This ties in closely with the last point. You might have heard stuff like

• “you’re a pervert if all you can think about is having sex with her”
• “women are not sex objects”
• “you have to care for her feelings and not want to sleep with her”

and so on. Well, all this is also misleading.

I do agree with a part of this. I do think that you have to care about women on a deeper level, you have to LIKE women. You want to have fun, and you want to leave them feeling better than when you found them.

Think about those words. Leave her feeling better than when you found her. This is powerful. It means that you CAN want to sleep with a woman, as long as that’s what she’s thinking of too. If you both are into it, then you will actually do her a FAVOR when you sleep with her.

If you learn how to become a strong, sexual, attractive man, then women will notice that and they will start taking an interest in you. Their mind will start to wander towards getting physical with you, I can guarantee that.

And when you do fulfill her fantasies that you’re making her have, you will be her hero.

The most important thing here is to become the attractive man first. If you’re socially unattractive, you’re low status, you’re dull, boring, have no sense of humor and the woman you’re talking to is REPULSED by you, then thinking about having sex with her REALLY IS SLEAZY. Don’t be that kind of guy!

Misconception #3 – You Should Act Real Sweet, Caring and NICE

Some people would like you to think that before a woman will ever consider having sex with you, you two need to be in a relationship. And that is a gross misunderstanding. It simply does not work that way.

In fact, getting in a serious long-term relationship with a girl is highly likely to HURT YOUR CHANCES! This is important. It goes against what is commonly believed, but that’s how things work.

Women categorize men under different labels, and they do it very quickly. She will decide in the course of MINUTES (if she’s slow) whether or not she would like to sleep with you. If you’re not communicating with her on a sexual level, then the DOOR IS SLAMMED SHUT, and she will not consider you as a sexual partner from that point on.

The two categories of men are lover and provider. There’s a huge amount of evidence pointing to this division being very real – for example, sexologists have discovered that a woman is much more likely to have an orgasm with a man she’s having an affair with than with her long-term partner. This is objective fact that has been observed.

A woman will either see you as a sexual partner or as someone who can provide resources, stability, security and other things necessary for her survival.

If you don’t start off communicating right from the start that you are a sexual man, then she will not think of sex with you. She will think of you as a potential provider (or probably not even that – simply a friend), and that’s it.

So, don’t follow the advice that says you have to be real sweet, caring, and nice. This can sometimes lead to a relationship with a beautiful, attractive woman (and you also sometimes win the 10 million dollar lottery). But acting like a man without backbone is not going to think of her as a the strong, attractive man that she wants.

This is the first part of the article series. The second part will be published in the coming days – stay tuned.

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I mean, you just want to kiss her like mad but you’re not sure how to make the first move. You’re not sure if she sees you that way and whether it’s going to be awkward when you make your move. Have you ever had that happen to you? How did it go?

But First, All The WRONG Advice I’ve Heard

One of the cheapest things in this world is advice. Everyone has some they’d like to offer. It gives you an ego boost when you can look smart and knowledgeable about a given topic. It’s a source of self-esteem.

However, the advice you get usually tends to be off course. It’s because too many people who don’t know much are so willing to give off advice. You have to be selective what you pay attention too.

And so it’s easy to get off course when you’re trying to figure out how to have more sexual relationships with women. There is so much misleading information and attitudes being pushed on you you can easily get discouraged and think you’re just not destined to have success with women.

Well, I’m here to break a few myths you might have heard a few times too many.

Misconception #1 – Women Don’t Want To Have Sex With You

It is a piece of information that is being thrown around a lot. It’s kind of like a mind virus. We men are programmed to believe that women are really not that sexual. It’s made to look like we men are perverts with really high sex drive while women are the ones trying to fend off the hordes of guys offering themselves to her.

Okay, so that part is true. Women ARE trying to fend off the hordes of men coming on to them. But the part that is NOT true is that they are doing it because they don’t like sex. That is simply not true.

Sexual pleasure, in my mind, is one of the highest forms of pleasure one can achieve naturally. We humans are built in such a way as to seek pleasure and avoid pain. Do you think women are any different? Do you think they don’t enjoy pleasure?

They do. They want to have sex too, because it leads to good feelings.

Then why are they not so open about it as we men are? It’s because of how they’re built up. Whatever your opinions on nature versus nurture, biologically, women are quite different from men. They have to be.

The male body creates huge amounts of sperm every month. New ones. The female body creates all the eggs it will ever create in one process, and this happens while she’s young. No new eggs will be produced after that time. Think about it. It’s all about economics.

Big revelation – women act like eggs, men act like sperm. Women act scarce, while men act like they’re simply another one in a long series of dull, faceless men. What’s the cost to a woman of getting pregnant and having to give birth? It’s massive. In addition to all the resources she’s going to need to give birth to a baby, she is also going to need more protection during those nine months. Evolutionally, the cost to having a baby has been extremely high. Consider also the fact that in prehistoric times, if her social group did not approve of the pregnancy, then she could have faced being thrown out of the group. And that, in the harsh reality of those days, usually meant death.

That’s the basic reason why women are so uptight about sex. It just economically makes sense to not have an affair with any random guy that comes along. That man has to be special. She has to see him as having quite a high value before she decides to want to sleep with him.

So – while women really do crave sexual pleasure as much as we men do, they are much, MUCH more selective about it. They only go for the guys that can create a strong feeling of attraction in her.

Are you a bit taken aback by this knowledge? Don’t be. It’s not as high a barrier as you would think. You can learn how to be more attractive to women so they DO want to have sex with you.

This is the first part of the article series. The second part will be published in the coming days – stay tuned.

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